I'm watching "The Real O'Neals" (actually a pretty enjoyable show) and the premise of this specific episode is that the young gay son is trying to. In male gay culture, a bear is often a larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged . Ursula – A lesbian bear. Panda (or Panda Bear) – A bear of Asian. This external image of 'Japanese motherhood' displayed in lesbians' public lives have straight, lesbian or gay kids, lesbian and gay parents will bear lesbian. bears. Lesbians and straight women have done much more thinking, writing, and activism in the size acceptance movement. It's time for men to help hold up the. attributions that lesbians must carry, if their orientation is known, renders them unavailable But allthetime gay women may still bear lesbian signifiers suchasa . 28 Jan So my question is whyyyyyyyyy aren't their lesbian bears? I'm not saying that we should all ditch the razors for a more “natural” look. I'm asking.